How Often Do We Take Life For Granted?

Once upon a time, there lived a girl who was born blind which caused her great anguish.

She always would inquire about an eye transplant, with the hope that maybe some-day she could be given the gift of vision. She was told that she was on a 20-year waiting list.

One day a young man met her. He appreciated her on a deeper level. He saw beyond her closed eyes, and beyond her bitterness. Deep inside of her he found a very gentle, refined and deep soul that was hurting badly. He took a very deep liking to her. He finally proposed. She said yes to the proposal.

You can only imagine how she appreciated what he had done for her. One day, he comes home and informs her, she would not have to wait 20 years for an eye transplant. In a few months she would be able to get a pair of eyes. She was overjoyed beyond words.

Before she went into the surgery, he told her something:

My dear wife, I don’t want you to be shocked when you wake up, so I am telling you now. “I am a blind man, too. I can’t see.”

She began weeping. The transplant ended with success, she opened her eyes and saw the world around her. She saw the heavens, she saw sunrise and sunset. She saw children playing; she saw rain, snow, trees, streams, rivers, gardens and animals. Her joy knew no bounds.

In the beginning she tended to him with tireless dedication and love. After all he was the man who chose to marry her, the blind woman, and she knew how much he loved her. After all, this man allowed her to get the transplant.

However, as time went on, she began feeling frustrated. She could finally travel and see the world; yet her husband’s impediment would limit her every move and her every step.

It was just unfair to her, she felt. She wanted to go live it up, but her blind husband just needed too much attention.

The woman decided to end the marriage.

“My dear,” she said; “I appreciate you and I love you, but I feel our marriage is not allowing me to live a good life, a free life, an exciting life. I don’t see the point in being married to you while I resent it.”

The day of the divorce, she found a letter under her pillow. This is what it said:

My dear beloved wife:

As you know, I always loved you and cherished you. After your request for a divorce, I immediately complied with your request. Love can’t be forced. I will miss you dearly, and I wish you the most beautiful, exciting and fun life you wish for yourself.

"I will just ask you one favor: Those eyes of yours, please treat them well. Take good care of them. For not too long ago, those eyes were mine. I loved you too much and could not bear to see you blind, so I gave you my eyes. That is why you did not have to wait 20 years.

This is how the human brain often works when our status changes. Only a very few remember what life was like before, and who was always by their side in the most painful situations.